I have about four of these to do, so it's going to take me a while... figured I might as well post them in installments.
From
ambyr:
Your children are very important to you. What would you have done to fill the (presumed) gap in your life if you'd been unable, for whatever reason, to bear children? How would it be different?
I don't know that I would have felt it as a gap, since I never really dreamed of having kids, and was pretty sure it wouldn't bother me much if I couldn't have them. Even now, I'm good with my own kids but I can't get very enthusiastic about anybody else's, and I'm one of the few women at my church who hasn't signed up for nursery duty. Anyway, I think that without kids my husband and I would have done more travelling, and gone on working with the teenagers in our church youth group. I'd probably still be working part-time at the printing firm, and trying to finish another original novel. And I would be making much more exotic recipes for dinner. :)
Barring your immediate family, who was the most important person to you in your childhood? Why?
I have thought and thought about this, and you know, I have a hard time thinking of anybody outside my immediate family, because I was such an outcast at school. I guess... I guess it would have to be my first best friend who was really my friend, and not just hanging around with me temporarily because she was mad at her real best friend and had nothing better to do. Having an actual friend of my own age and gender who liked me for who I was, and preferred my company to anybody else's... that was staggering to me, because it had never happened before. I was ten years old at the time.
What differences do you find between the processes of writing fan fiction and original fiction? Is one easier than the other? Why?
Well, since even my fanfics tend to be OC-driven (my latest is almost entirely OCs), there isn't much difference in the writing process itself. The big difference for me is that fan fiction requires little or no research, whereas my original stuff demands it. And I am lousy at research, and I don't enjoy doing it. So right now when I'm too busy with the kids to slog through a bunch of background reading on diphtheria epidemics and the use of gunpowder and the terms of Victorian insurance policies, writing fic is the best way to scratch the imaginative itch and polish my writing skills.
If you could change one choice you've made in your life, what would it be?
There is a letter I wrote to a friend about fifteen years ago, which I would like to have written differently, or (probably better) never written at all.
What first attracted you to your husband?
When I first met him, I liked the way he looked. He had the tall, thin, bespectacled European-looking university student thing going and that has always appealed to me. But then I found out he was much younger than I'd thought he was, and since I was convinced I was meant to marry someone older he kind of dropped off my radar. When I finally got to know him, though, I was drawn by his integrity, his commitment to spiritual things, and his sense of humour. And when I finally got it through my thick head that the real issue wasn't age but maturity -- reader, I married him. :)
On to Part Two...
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Your children are very important to you. What would you have done to fill the (presumed) gap in your life if you'd been unable, for whatever reason, to bear children? How would it be different?
I don't know that I would have felt it as a gap, since I never really dreamed of having kids, and was pretty sure it wouldn't bother me much if I couldn't have them. Even now, I'm good with my own kids but I can't get very enthusiastic about anybody else's, and I'm one of the few women at my church who hasn't signed up for nursery duty. Anyway, I think that without kids my husband and I would have done more travelling, and gone on working with the teenagers in our church youth group. I'd probably still be working part-time at the printing firm, and trying to finish another original novel. And I would be making much more exotic recipes for dinner. :)
Barring your immediate family, who was the most important person to you in your childhood? Why?
I have thought and thought about this, and you know, I have a hard time thinking of anybody outside my immediate family, because I was such an outcast at school. I guess... I guess it would have to be my first best friend who was really my friend, and not just hanging around with me temporarily because she was mad at her real best friend and had nothing better to do. Having an actual friend of my own age and gender who liked me for who I was, and preferred my company to anybody else's... that was staggering to me, because it had never happened before. I was ten years old at the time.
What differences do you find between the processes of writing fan fiction and original fiction? Is one easier than the other? Why?
Well, since even my fanfics tend to be OC-driven (my latest is almost entirely OCs), there isn't much difference in the writing process itself. The big difference for me is that fan fiction requires little or no research, whereas my original stuff demands it. And I am lousy at research, and I don't enjoy doing it. So right now when I'm too busy with the kids to slog through a bunch of background reading on diphtheria epidemics and the use of gunpowder and the terms of Victorian insurance policies, writing fic is the best way to scratch the imaginative itch and polish my writing skills.
If you could change one choice you've made in your life, what would it be?
There is a letter I wrote to a friend about fifteen years ago, which I would like to have written differently, or (probably better) never written at all.
What first attracted you to your husband?
When I first met him, I liked the way he looked. He had the tall, thin, bespectacled European-looking university student thing going and that has always appealed to me. But then I found out he was much younger than I'd thought he was, and since I was convinced I was meant to marry someone older he kind of dropped off my radar. When I finally got to know him, though, I was drawn by his integrity, his commitment to spiritual things, and his sense of humour. And when I finally got it through my thick head that the real issue wasn't age but maturity -- reader, I married him. :)
On to Part Two...