And because my mind makes strange connections, I have to say that feedback like that always makes me think of Darcy's first proposal to Elizabeth in Pride and Prejudice, and then I giggle madly.
That's really PERFECT.
And just to be clear -- I think the proportion of "well-meaning" comments of this type to "bashing" comments of this type is about 50 to 1. That 1 can be mightily annoying or downright mean, but I have worked hard not to let the natural response to that shade my reactions to the other 50.
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That's really PERFECT.
And just to be clear -- I think the proportion of "well-meaning" comments of this type to "bashing" comments of this type is about 50 to 1. That 1 can be mightily annoying or downright mean, but I have worked hard not to let the natural response to that shade my reactions to the other 50.